A couple months back, on a solo adventure, I was so grateful to set eyes on Hutchison Memorial Bothy (a basic shelter in the Scottish mountains). After many hours in the hills, with the sun pounding down, darkness encroaching and midges feasting on me, I was ready to give up! Fortunately Hutchy bothy was there when I needed it most.
In life, I know I’ve felt like giving up a few times. Trying to be better and trying to improve means you’ve got to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. The more you do it, the better you become – but it can become fatiguing. Don’t give up though, the bothy might be just round the corner!
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